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		<title>By: Nadira Jamal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nadira Jamal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 16:29:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;How long are your proper practice sessions?&quot;

It varies, and by a lot!  I don&#039;t really have a standard practice session.  It really depends on how early I woke up, what I want to work on, etc.   And, of course, with the injury, everything is off-kilter.

I&#039;ve been trying (in many areas of my life, not just dancing) to focus on a minimum level of compliance*.   i.e., set a reasonable, achievable goal, try to make it a habit, and not stress about doing anything beyond that.  I often end up doing more than that, but I&#039;m not obligated to, and I don&#039;t get any bonus points for doing it (and no get-out-of-jail-free cards to use on another day).   The only reason to do more is because I really want to. 

For dancing, my minimum level of compliance is 15 minutes of active moving time.  About half the time, I am running late, and that&#039;s all I can spare, but about half the time, I do more:  10 or 15 minutes more is usually the most extra I can spare on a normal day (if I don&#039;t want to be late for work), but when I&#039;m having a really good time, I&#039;ve been known to go an extra two hours on an evening or day off.


It took a while to make peace with such a low number, but over time, I accepted that I get more practice in if I do at least the minimum every day than if I lame out several days a week because I can&#039;t face the 90-minute session I think I should be doing (but would never expect of anyone else).  Once I got over that, having a trivial-seeming minimum helps take away the &quot;shoulds&quot; and the guilt that make me more likely to procrastinate, just like days off do.

All that said, class is where I do most of my work.  I take two to three hours of class a week, and teach for two hours.  I lead my beginners through plenty of basics drilling, and get more advanced drilling and topical instruction in the advanced/pro class I take.   So my practice time is mostly the equivalent of spot-toning:  working on little things that I want to clean up or develop, or exploring new styles/ideas, etc.   If I weren&#039;t in class so regularly, I&#039;d have to block out evening time to do longer practice sessions.


* the idea of a minimum levels of compliance is from Reinhard Engels of everydaysystems.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;How long are your proper practice sessions?&#8221;</p>
<p>It varies, and by a lot!  I don&#8217;t really have a standard practice session.  It really depends on how early I woke up, what I want to work on, etc.   And, of course, with the injury, everything is off-kilter.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been trying (in many areas of my life, not just dancing) to focus on a minimum level of compliance*.   i.e., set a reasonable, achievable goal, try to make it a habit, and not stress about doing anything beyond that.  I often end up doing more than that, but I&#8217;m not obligated to, and I don&#8217;t get any bonus points for doing it (and no get-out-of-jail-free cards to use on another day).   The only reason to do more is because I really want to. </p>
<p>For dancing, my minimum level of compliance is 15 minutes of active moving time.  About half the time, I am running late, and that&#8217;s all I can spare, but about half the time, I do more:  10 or 15 minutes more is usually the most extra I can spare on a normal day (if I don&#8217;t want to be late for work), but when I&#8217;m having a really good time, I&#8217;ve been known to go an extra two hours on an evening or day off.</p>
<p>It took a while to make peace with such a low number, but over time, I accepted that I get more practice in if I do at least the minimum every day than if I lame out several days a week because I can&#8217;t face the 90-minute session I think I should be doing (but would never expect of anyone else).  Once I got over that, having a trivial-seeming minimum helps take away the &#8220;shoulds&#8221; and the guilt that make me more likely to procrastinate, just like days off do.</p>
<p>All that said, class is where I do most of my work.  I take two to three hours of class a week, and teach for two hours.  I lead my beginners through plenty of basics drilling, and get more advanced drilling and topical instruction in the advanced/pro class I take.   So my practice time is mostly the equivalent of spot-toning:  working on little things that I want to clean up or develop, or exploring new styles/ideas, etc.   If I weren&#8217;t in class so regularly, I&#8217;d have to block out evening time to do longer practice sessions.</p>
<p>* the idea of a minimum levels of compliance is from Reinhard Engels of everydaysystems.com</p>
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		<title>By: Mala</title>
		<link>http://malabhargava.com/belly-dance/preparing-to-dance.html/comment-page-1#comment-2354</link>
		<dc:creator>Mala</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 19:07:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nadira, I&#039;ve just recently decided i&#039;ll take Monday off and not worry at all about sitting around and not dancing. On most days i hate missing out on the dancing - and more so the exercise because i have this big obsession with wanting to be thin. just like many people. So, the other day I sneaked an entire half an hour at work and did the Bellydance Rhythms routine! I had to live with being a bit sweaty at work after that for the rest of the day. 

But I&#039;m wary of short dance sessions. it usually means no warm up and i don&#039;t want to hurt anything at my age. Nevertheless, i glute-isolate or belly-silate all the way to work in the car. 

How long are your proper practice sessions?

mala</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nadira, I&#8217;ve just recently decided i&#8217;ll take Monday off and not worry at all about sitting around and not dancing. On most days i hate missing out on the dancing &#8211; and more so the exercise because i have this big obsession with wanting to be thin. just like many people. So, the other day I sneaked an entire half an hour at work and did the Bellydance Rhythms routine! I had to live with being a bit sweaty at work after that for the rest of the day. </p>
<p>But I&#8217;m wary of short dance sessions. it usually means no warm up and i don&#8217;t want to hurt anything at my age. Nevertheless, i glute-isolate or belly-silate all the way to work in the car. </p>
<p>How long are your proper practice sessions?</p>
<p>mala</p>
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		<title>By: Nadira Jamal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nadira Jamal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 17:58:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That sounds familiar!  I find that if I don&#039;t practice in the morning, it doesn&#039;t happen at all.  (Outside of classes, that is.)  And between being an unabashed sleepyhead, occasional insomniac, and having a full-time job, I never get in quite as much practice as I&#039;d like.

Here are a few things that make my practice sessions more likely to happen:

- make sure that everything is ready before I go to bed: dance floor cleared, DVDs or CDs located, dance clothes laid out.  

- Sometimes I also make little bargains with myself:  if I get up on the first alarm and dance for at least 10 minutes, I can go back to bed for a little more sleep if I really want to.  Once I get moving, though, I don&#039;t want to stop.

- Even if I do oversleep, I try to get a tiny bit of practice in, even if it&#039;s just a 10 minute shimmy or arms drill in my pajamas.   (And if I&#039;ve been having a particularly tough week, I&#039;ll sleep in my more comfortable exercise clothes, so I can jump right out of bed and go up to my studio room.)

- I sneak in a little practice here and there:  a bit of shimmying while doing the dishes, a couple of belly rolls while sitting at my desk, glute squeezes on the escalator (only when wearing a loose coat!), wrist circles and hand undulations as a break from typing, etc.    It can&#039;t replace a missed session, but it still helps.

- I take regular days off.  Regardless of what else happens during the week, I don&#039;t have to dance on Saturdays and Sundays.  I *can* dance if I am irresistibly called to the studio, but I am under no obligation to do so, and doing it on a weekend doesn&#039;t let me out of my weekday sessions.  Taking a break gives me a rest, and being unashamed about it relieves a lot of the pressure.  So when I go into the studio on Monday morning, instead of feeling like a lazy, bad dancer with a lot of catching up to do, I feel like I&#039;ve taken good care of myself and look forward to dancing again.  Give it a try sometime!   It doesn&#039;t have to be weekends, two days in a row, or two days a week; any regularly-scheduled rest will go a long way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That sounds familiar!  I find that if I don&#8217;t practice in the morning, it doesn&#8217;t happen at all.  (Outside of classes, that is.)  And between being an unabashed sleepyhead, occasional insomniac, and having a full-time job, I never get in quite as much practice as I&#8217;d like.</p>
<p>Here are a few things that make my practice sessions more likely to happen:</p>
<p>- make sure that everything is ready before I go to bed: dance floor cleared, DVDs or CDs located, dance clothes laid out.  </p>
<p>- Sometimes I also make little bargains with myself:  if I get up on the first alarm and dance for at least 10 minutes, I can go back to bed for a little more sleep if I really want to.  Once I get moving, though, I don&#8217;t want to stop.</p>
<p>- Even if I do oversleep, I try to get a tiny bit of practice in, even if it&#8217;s just a 10 minute shimmy or arms drill in my pajamas.   (And if I&#8217;ve been having a particularly tough week, I&#8217;ll sleep in my more comfortable exercise clothes, so I can jump right out of bed and go up to my studio room.)</p>
<p>- I sneak in a little practice here and there:  a bit of shimmying while doing the dishes, a couple of belly rolls while sitting at my desk, glute squeezes on the escalator (only when wearing a loose coat!), wrist circles and hand undulations as a break from typing, etc.    It can&#8217;t replace a missed session, but it still helps.</p>
<p>- I take regular days off.  Regardless of what else happens during the week, I don&#8217;t have to dance on Saturdays and Sundays.  I *can* dance if I am irresistibly called to the studio, but I am under no obligation to do so, and doing it on a weekend doesn&#8217;t let me out of my weekday sessions.  Taking a break gives me a rest, and being unashamed about it relieves a lot of the pressure.  So when I go into the studio on Monday morning, instead of feeling like a lazy, bad dancer with a lot of catching up to do, I feel like I&#8217;ve taken good care of myself and look forward to dancing again.  Give it a try sometime!   It doesn&#8217;t have to be weekends, two days in a row, or two days a week; any regularly-scheduled rest will go a long way.</p>
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		<title>By: Sajia Kabir</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sajia Kabir</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 17:39:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s what I would do.
Put your yoga pants, knee pads, bracelets, hip scarves and other dancewear accessories in the same place; maybe dedicate a drawer for that. 
Start a habit of making the tea before you start turning on the dance room lights and getting the hardware ready. That way, it&#039;ll have cooled down by the time you want to drink it. When you&#039;re making the tea, get the jug of water and then put in the room. If you streamline your routine you might find it easier.
If you can, keep a separate flash drive for dancing purposes and put it with your phones.
Basically, when you say to yourself, I want to dance, make a list of things you have to do, or find yourself doing usually, in preparation, and do them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s what I would do.<br />
Put your yoga pants, knee pads, bracelets, hip scarves and other dancewear accessories in the same place; maybe dedicate a drawer for that.<br />
Start a habit of making the tea before you start turning on the dance room lights and getting the hardware ready. That way, it&#8217;ll have cooled down by the time you want to drink it. When you&#8217;re making the tea, get the jug of water and then put in the room. If you streamline your routine you might find it easier.<br />
If you can, keep a separate flash drive for dancing purposes and put it with your phones.<br />
Basically, when you say to yourself, I want to dance, make a list of things you have to do, or find yourself doing usually, in preparation, and do them.</p>
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		<title>By: Dina Kassam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dina Kassam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 12:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL mala I recognize myself from what you are telling :)
Especially the tea, water, and my cellphone has a tendency to ring during my warm up and frequently it s someone i have not spoken to for a long time :-s

I cruelly turn it silent lately, one can always call back right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL mala I recognize myself from what you are telling <img src='http://malabhargava.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Especially the tea, water, and my cellphone has a tendency to ring during my warm up and frequently it s someone i have not spoken to for a long time :-s</p>
<p>I cruelly turn it silent lately, one can always call back right?</p>
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